I’m a 22 years old Italian guy, I really want to move out, a lot has happened lately... I need some advice.
Im a 22 years old Italian guy, however still live with my parents like most of my Italian peers and I have recently had a very long relationship end abruptly, which was very tough on me since we actually were planning to build a life together.
I feel so lost without my relationship and my life plan, and it’s been 4 months already so I don’t think it’s going to change anytime soon. I want to grow up, I want to be 30 or even 40 at home with my wife. (Most) women are also much more mature at that age. I wish I could go forward in time and never go back to feeling young and lost.
I live in South Italy where it’s pretty much impossible to get a decent job (even with a degree! Few young people are able to live on their own here) so I’m thinking about moving to England since I have a friend there who offered me to live with him next year. We met on an online videogame around a year ago and we’ve been talking and playing videogames since, and he seems like a genuine person.
He immediately offered me a spot in his flat when he’s going to move out next year since he’s going to uni (he’s a couple years younger than me). It’s not what I had planned, but maybe it’s what I need the most right now... To have my independence... to finally feel like a man and not a kid. Taking risks I never took. My family will not approve my decision since I’m their only child and are over protective at times... but I certainly can’t let that stop me from moving and trying out new places. I’m tired of my small, empty town. The only girl I liked is the one I broke up with. My friends are all moving away. I have no reason to stay apart from my parents keeping me tbh. I feel like they’re against any kind of independence from me for some reason. They think I don’t know what I’m doing and stuff like that.





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