c'è tutta la pagina reddit per incontri :asd:
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c'è tutta la pagina reddit per incontri :asd:
La mammina che vuole giocare con il mitra mi attizza
Prima delle bolle immobiliare e migratoria era meno mostro, diciamo un drago alla portata di San Giorgio.Citazione:
Originariamente Scritto da Valido e non in uso
Adesso pare uno tsunami di merda sciolta (tipo India) che con la lancia, anche se sei Santo e di nome Giorgio non puoi fare un cazzo.
22 [M4F] Willing to meet any girl, regardless of looks, age, weight etc. self.londonr4r
inviato 22 ore fa da Antzlive
Happy to meet anyone tonight in central london. I'm a huge big black guy, with no real type, just looking for fun. Either drinks and meet, or just straight to your place. I'm easy. Want to have fun with my youth.
cesarì, once you go black... :asd:
La polonia e' entrata nel 2004. Io sono arrivato nel 2006 e sono finito in una multinazionale in mezzo a uno sciame di napoletani, percio' ti capisco benissimoCitazione:
Originariamente Scritto da koba44
ma sei la rikkomba?Citazione:
Originariamente Scritto da Valido e non in uso
Mi pare evidente.Citazione:
Originariamente Scritto da Moloch
che nick di merda :asd:Citazione:
Originariamente Scritto da Moloch
Piano con gli insulti, ci sono un sacco di altri utenti in questo forum che potrebbero avere Sprea come avatarCitazione:
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27 [M4F] - Seeking a practice Girlfriend
inviato 13 ore fa da Jbwasted
(post from GBR4R)
Hello!
I'll warn you, this isn't a short post.
I'm James, I'm 27 and I live in West London. I've also never had a girlfriend, or any form of intimate relationship outside of close friends. I've never even been kissed, I'm sure you know the rest.
Have the alarm bells stopped ringing yet? Okay, good. Far from being a neck beard, an Incel or anything cringe worthy like that; the tl;dr is that various circumstances, mindsets, and excuses have lead me to where I am now. I will just reiterate; I am normal, as normal as someone can be, other than asking strangers on the internet to consider being my practice girlfriend.
Surprisingly, I don't suffer social anxiety or similar; I'm confident in who I am and I don't have trouble meeting new people. However due to my lack of experience, whenever confronted with the possibility of seeing someone as more than a friend I get caught like a deer in headlights. Insecurities, self doubt, pressure etc sets in and puts me on the back foot. I can't expect things to change if I don't do anything about them.
This is purely platonic/non physical. I don't expect to practice anything other than dates and dating. In truth, the reason I'm posting here is because a lot of the women I know in real life are in happy relationships/married (reaching that age, after all), have moved away, or aren't in a position to help.
Features:
I have a beautiful dog, she's very friendly and I'll let you be friends with her (although, there's little I could do to stop her being friends with you, she befriends everyone)
I like to ride motorbikes. If you've never been on the back of a bike before; I have a spare helmet, gear and an abundance of places to go.
I video game. Not as much as I used to, but I've also been struggling with Cuphead and would like some help there, too.
I don't smoke or 420, but I don't hold anything against those who do either.
I'm quite open minded. I like cultural things, and feel lucky living close to a capital of culture.
I'm creative (Theatre Design Graduate) and absolutely relish creativity in other people.
I have a dope YouTube playlist of 90's hip hop instrumentals.
I can recite Simpsons, Peep Show, King of the Hill and Futurama quotes on demand.
I won't outshine you in photos, or karaoke. (I'll give it a damn good go though)
Specs:
27, I'm roughly 5'10" and average build.
Lives in West London, commutes South West.
Works in the motorcycle industry, doesn't sponge.
Active, could be fitter and working on it.
Humour is on the dry, witty side.
Music tastes center around rock and grunge, but certainly not limited to.
This isn't a throwaway, check my history for more of 'me'
Due to work schedules, I'm not always available but I can make something work
FAQ:
Why now, at 27? Why not sooner?
I only found Reddit a few years ago! But more importantly I'm in a place in life where I am happy with who I am. I'm always moving up; however this is an area that hasn't moved at all. I've tried many things to little success and rather than just assure myself that "She's out there", I feel I need to tackle this in a slightly abstract way. She is out there, but I can't expect to find her/her to find me if I'm repeating the same mistakes, or not trying at all.
Why don't you just use OkC/Tinder/PoF/etc rather than post here?
I have done. I have small gripes with online dating; it's too easy to nit pick, judge and calculate someone based on a percentage, some pictures and a bit of text. It's too easy to look at someones profile and immediately ask yourself "Do I want to be in a relationship with this person" It's hard not to be the sum of your profile; Sometimes the most attractive things about someone are deeper than what they look like, or how they choose to describe themselves in a box. I'm guilty of judging some women by the content of their profile, I'm certain women have judged me on mine too.
Why not just go out on dates with potential... dates? Surely that'd be practice in itself?
I've tried and I have been. The issue here is I'm a complete novice to dating and being a desirable partner. Going on dates with women who themselves are looking for someone probably aren't interested in baby-stepping me through this process. They might not have the patience or mindset, and would rather spend their dating energy looking for guys who know what they're doing, or are looking for relationships. 'Dating' someone who knows my situation takes the pressure off me, because I know that it's not real. There's not a relationship in question; any criticism can be aired and corrected, not "Thanks, see you in the next life" whilst I wonder where I went wrong.
But, Every woman is different. Practicing with one woman doesn't necessarily mean you'll be a good fit for another.
Good point, but there's standards and general areas I know I need to improve. I also want to experience dating situations, get a feel for the do's and dont's. I don't expect you to treat me as a potential partner for only you. You can explain if you don't care for something, but another woman may.
Are you sure you're not gay/bi?
Unfortunately I'm not gay/bi. I've given that subject a lot of thought; as nice as it would be to know that's what's been holding me back, and as much as I wish it was that simple, it's not.
Why don't you just hire an escort?
Many reasons. I doubt I could afford one. I don't want to pay someone to enjoy my company, or be with someone who's acting as if they are. I don't want to enter that 'world' where I could be sat opposite someone who would rather be anywhere else. At the end of this, I'd quite like to have a good friendship with someone. I'd like to go on real dates and then have someone I can 'report' back to, maybe offer further guidance & advice to me. This is a growing experience; not a service I'm trying to get for free.
Is this a trap?
No. Standard dating rules apply; chat for a bit, exchange contact details, meet in public places, no pressure at all. The absolute last thing I want to do is make someone feel uncomfortable.
Okay, but is this a trap? Are you hoping for some woman to teach you, only to fall for them and wish for something more than 'practice'?
No. I don't want or expect anything physical, at all. I'll be honest and upfront throughout the entire thing, in fact I probably won't be very attractive at all. I'll want to know if I'm dressed a bit much/less, if my date ideas are lame, if my etiquette or manners are lacking etc.
Brilliant! I live in Timbuktu, how can I help?
Unfortunately, you can't. I'm comfortable talking to people online. I'm comfortable writing things like this. However in real life, face to face, I need practice. I need experience. That's why this only applies to people who live in London, or visit regularly.
Requirements:
Must live in London or surrounding counties
Must be patient. This won't be mind numbingly difficult (I promise) but some understanding will definitely help.
Must be willing to pay some of the way. I'll treat you sure, but I don't feel it'd be fair for me to pay for everything.
Would prefer if you were single, or in an open relationship. I don't want to turn any partners the wrong way, cause drama etc.
Must not be racist, homophobic, sexist, ignorant etc. A decent human, essentially.
Must be open to opening up about themselves, also.
Yes, I figure this might cause confusion. The whole point of this is that I get comfortable with someone who's comfortable being with me. I don't expect your life story, but I don't want a series of blind/speed date encounters either. Although, the odd role play or a speed/blind date as a test sounds fun.
If you read this far then message me, because I probably owe you a drink for getting through all that.