BADDO, AITAH for rejecting a transgender woman after our date?

[Cesarino]

A little context:

I'm a cis lesbian woman who just recently got back into the dating scene. I've been using dating apps & I personally thinks it's hurtful to have something like "no trans" on my profile. Plus, I'm more than open to having trans friends (regardless of the gender they transitioned to). But I am not attracted to anyone with male genitalia.

I matched with a woman who was extremely beautiful & we had a lot of mutual interests! I felt like I had finally found someone who I was compatible with, so I asked her out on a date. The chemistry was fantastic in person, it felt like I was catching up with an old friend rather than meeting a stranger for the first time.

Halfway through our date, she disclosed that she's transgender and has had top surgery but isn't sure if she'll ever have bottom surgery. She said that even though she passes as a cis female, she's not comfortable disclosing that she's trans on her dating profile due to fear of rejection. I was shocked, but not visibly because I didn't want to hurt her feelings. I told her that I'm very happy that she felt comfortable enough sharing that with me & she should always feel safe enough to be who she is around me. We continued on with the date & even had a few drinks afterwards just enjoying each others company really.

At the end of our date, when we were both chatting by our vehicles, she invited me to come back to her place. I told her, "I would love to be your friend but I don't think we should pursue a romantic relationship." She was visibly hurt :( she asked why, I said I didn't think we were compatible. But she kept pushing, deflecting every answer I gave her until I gave in said it was due to her genitalia. She broke down crying, asking why people won't accept her for who she is. I told her that there is someone out there for her who will love her exactly the way she wants to be loved. I apologized for not being that person, but I would love to still be her friend. She switched up, getting angry & calling me a TERF, then got in her vehicle & left.

I felt so bad, I never want to make anyone feel terrible about themselves, I know what that feels like. I really need to know….. AITAH?

[Frigg]

Maledette terf

->Spoiler<-

[Transello]

Lesbiche che non vogliono i pipini, dove andremo a finire signora mia!

[EddieTheHead]

all'inferno esiste un girone apposito per mostri come l'OP

[islandhermit]

ci vuole un buon secolo di sharia in OCCIDENTE

[Orologio]

...la tattica del travone friendzonato invece è meritoria.
Andare all'attacco e ferire l'avversario emotivamente, tra l'altro senza potere essere tacciato di essere un manipolatore o maschilista.

Mi fanno comunque sempre lollare le seghe mentali di questi personaggi col cervello frullato...

[Glasco]

I'm a cis lesbian

sono confuso. cis non voleva mica dire normale?

[Baddo]

[Cesarino]

I'm a cis lesbian

sono confuso. cis non voleva mica dire normale?

dai glasco. eppure sei un uomo di mondo!!

[pasquaz]

I'm a cis lesbian

sono confuso. cis non voleva mica dire normale?

una lesbica che normalmente lesbicheggia

(no, seriamente, non ne ho minima idea, da quando sono iniziati sti neologismi mi sono limitato semplicemente a fottesegare alla grande)

[fulviuz]

Anche a me manca quel punto di trama

[Diabolik]

I'm a cis lesbian

sono confuso. cis non voleva mica dire normale?

Sei serio? cis vuol dire semplicemente nata biologicamente donna... non trans insomma

[Necronomicon]

I'm a cis lesbian

sono confuso. cis non voleva mica dire normale?

Va letto come genere normale, interesse sessuale scissoring

[showa]

E TERF, cazzosignifica???

No, non guglo

[Lux !]

E TERF, cazzosignifica???

No, non guglo

Una donna che non crede che gli uomini siano donne, e di conseguenza una maledetta merdaccia agli occhi della comunità trans

[showa]

Una donna che non crede che gli uomini siano donne, e di conseguenza una maledetta merdaccia agli occhi della comunità trans

capitonasegamavabeneuguale

[Baddo]

Trans-exclusive radical feminist

Femministe anti-trans

Un po' le stimo

[Baddo]

Ma un po' hanno contribuito a creare questo clima di PC ad ogni costo con tutti i freak possibili per cui...

[squallwii]

Ma come osa OP? Ma una bella denuncia penale no? Assurdo, signora mia

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[Mastro Razza]

ma poi non ho capito,
ha trovato un trans semioperato (in che modo poi si opera a metà ??? solo tette?)
che da uomo voleva passare a donna per andare comunque con le donne !?!?!??