Keeping track of the pronouns in my teens social group is exhausting.
To start, let me say that my husband and I do not care about our children’s or their friends gender identities beyond a deep desire to respect the young people in our lives and create a supportive and positive environment for them. We’re both queer, we understand how hard navigating adolescence can be, and we want to make sure our home is accepting and welcoming to everyone who steps foot in our door.
Our daughter’s friends go through frequent pronoun changes. Often each time I see one of these kids, they will be using a different set of pronouns and a new name and I cannot for the life of me keep it all straight. Our relationship with her friends is cordial and that’s about it, which honestly I feel is appropriate. I’m not a teenager, and so beyond exchanging pleasantries, providing snacks, and offering a ride home they are not a big part of my life. I would honestly struggle to remember their names if they WERENT changing regularly.
But…every time I get it wrong, my daughter gets incredibly offended on their behalf. I am trying so hard but it is just exhausting. Questioning who you are at this age is developmentally appropriate and I don’t begrudge them that, but I also can’t wait till her social group settles into more long lasting identities.
For now I’m just apologizing frequently and baking a lot of cookies.
https://www.reddit.com/r/TrueOffMyCh..._teens_social/
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Speriamo arrivino presto pure qua :smugdance:
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son cose che ti fanno rimpiangere gli anni 30/40
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I cannot for the life of me keep it all straight
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keep it all straight
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To start, let me say that my husband and I do not care about our children’s or their friends gender identities beyond a deep desire to respect the young people in our lives and create a supportive and positive environment for them. We’re both queer, we understand how hard navigating adolescence can be, and we want to make sure our home is accepting and welcoming to everyone who steps foot in our door.
Our daughter’s friends go through frequent pronoun changes. Often each time I see one of these kids, they will be using a different set of pronouns and a new name and I cannot for the life of me keep it all straight. Our relationship with her friends is cordial and that’s about it, which honestly I feel is appropriate. I’m not a teenager, and so beyond exchanging pleasantries, providing snacks, and offering a ride home they are not a big part of my life. I would honestly struggle to remember their names if they WERENT changing regularly.
But…every time I get it wrong, my daughter gets incredibly offended on their behalf. I am trying so hard but it is just exhausting. Questioning who you are at this age is developmentally appropriate and I don’t begrudge them that, but I also can’t wait till her social group settles into more long lasting identities.
For now I’m just apologizing frequently and baking a lot of cookies.
https://www.reddit.com/r/TrueOffMyCh..._teens_social/
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IT'S NOT A PHASE, PARENT #1 !!!
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purtroppo il ritardo c'è sia tra estremisti conservatori che progressisti
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Io non faccio una grinza neppure quando al telefono mi chiamano con un sesso diverso :lul:
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Vi immaginate i reperti HR tra 10 anni?
Se a me hanno fatto cantare Azzurro, cosa cazzo faranno a questa generazione di disossati?
Che poi dietro la scrivania troveranno loro simili, quindi sarà una roba tipo "incrociare i flussi"...
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Cosa vuol dire "mi han fatto cantare Azzurro"? :|
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Vi immaginate i reperti HR tra 10 anni?
Se a me hanno fatto cantare Azzurro, cosa cazzo faranno a questa generazione di disossati?
Che poi dietro la scrivania troveranno loro simili, quindi sarà una roba tipo "incrociare i flussi"...
Rapporti omosex in sede di colloquio per mostrare che sei aperto a tutte le inclinazioni :sisi:
Comunque se mi avessero chiesto di cantare qualsiasi cosa credo che sarei scappato a gambe levate :sisi:
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Cosa vuol dire "mi han fatto cantare Azzurro"? :|
purtroppo la risposta giá la sai :asd:
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Cosa vuol dire "mi han fatto cantare Azzurro"? :|
Per vedere se era un italiano autentico od un vile infiltrato tedesco
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Cosa vuol dire "mi han fatto cantare Azzurro"? :|
Già raccontato mille volte :asd:
Comunque, colloquio di gruppo a Roma, presso società privata che fattura miliardi lavorando con noto carrozzone statale.
Rosa già sfoltita a 10 candidati, alla fine ce ne sarà solo Uno.
Mi guardo intorno, qualche tipo dall'aria brillante e ragazzette manager con vestiti formali corti e unghie affiliate, già si mette male.
Si apre con presentazioni, si procede con varie cazzate roleplay dove cerco di dare la risposta che penso che vogliano perché quella giusta è troppo ovvia.
Si chiude tutto con la HR che ci costringe UNO ALLA VOLTA a cantare due o tre strofe di Azzurro, per ragioni imperscrutabili.
Alla fine invitarono tutti ad andarsene tranne una delle tipe scosciate con unghie laccate.
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il vero nightgaunt li avrebbe mandati a cagare e se ne sarebbe andato da solo, ma la fame da posto fisso ha avuto il sopravvento
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E io che cantai azzurro alle elementari allora sono fotut
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il vero nightgaunt li avrebbe mandati a cagare e se ne sarebbe andato da solo, ma la fame da posto fisso ha avuto il sopravvento
Ese, forse il Nightgaunt di Just for Spam, non il tizio precario che stava lì :asd:
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Si chiude tutto con la HR che ci costringe UNO ALLA VOLTA a cantare due o tre strofe di Azzurro, per ragioni imperscrutabili.
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In before, HR stava testando quelli che avevano le.palle di dire NO a richieste assurde :sisi:
oppure stava testando quanto i candidati fossero bravi cagnetti addestrati ad obbedire agli ordini :asd:
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To start, let me say that my husband and I do not care about our children’s or their friends gender identities beyond a deep desire to respect the young people in our lives and create a supportive and positive environment for them. We’re both queer, we understand how hard navigating adolescence can be, and we want to make sure our home is accepting and welcoming to everyone who steps foot in our door.
Our daughter’s friends go through frequent pronoun changes. Often each time I see one of these kids, they will be using a different set of pronouns and a new name and I cannot for the life of me keep it all straight. Our relationship with her friends is cordial and that’s about it, which honestly I feel is appropriate. I’m not a teenager, and so beyond exchanging pleasantries, providing snacks, and offering a ride home they are not a big part of my life. I would honestly struggle to remember their names if they WERENT changing regularly.
But…every time I get it wrong, my daughter gets incredibly offended on their behalf. I am trying so hard but it is just exhausting. Questioning who you are at this age is developmentally appropriate and I don’t begrudge them that, but I also can’t wait till her social group settles into more long lasting identities.
For now I’m just apologizing frequently and baking a lot of cookies.
https://www.reddit.com/r/TrueOffMyCh..._teens_social/
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ma dire semplicemente "no" è impossibile?
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In before, HR stava testando quelli che avevano le.palle di dire NO a richieste assurde :sisi:
oppure stava testando quanto i candidati fossero bravi cagnetti addestrati ad obbedire agli ordini :asd:
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Boh, alla fine cantammo tutti, io però di sicuro avrò fatto trasparire qualcosa di quello che pensavo, perché la HR sollevò impercettibilmente uno dei lati della bocca.
O forse ero solo ridicolo, ci stava sicuramente.
