mine have never been a war against ********, I don’t know her, and I don’t have any interest on what she’s doing.
My war is against people who allows trans women to take part into ladies category. Not because I’m a transphobic bitch, but because it’s an insult to all the women. Let’s be honest, you can do how many treatments as you want, but the body structure will remain the original one, even if less muscular.
But that’s not the problems, the real one. I’ve never attacked anyone, nor even insulted. But on my side, I’ve been compare to cancer, being sent to burn in hell, insulted into many other ways. And this is not a big trauma for me, but, there’s a biiiiig BUT, the LGBT community always complain about being insulted, bullied by the society, which I think it’s very stupid, and basically I’ve been treated in the same way by this community. Aren’t they supposed to understand what does it mean being bullied? No, because they have become what they fought all their lives. It’s impossible to have a constructive discussion about this topic because if I say “it’s wrong” I immediately see people with prosciutto slices on their eyes, pointing out the other persone as a transphobic Nazi.
You feel like a woman? You identify as a woman? Ok, then try period cramps, try to feel discriminated since a little girl, try to feel the fear of walking alone in a street at night, hearing people say that you can’t to a JOB because you’re a woman, A JOB.
Asking for a tampon at 10 y/o because you had your first period at school and felt in panic.
Try that.
For me and other people, is wrong for a trans woman to do a lady category because isn’t fair for my sex. It’s so insulting, but by saying this I’ve never insulted anyone. Is it possible to speak as normal people?
Last thing. The post about ********’s outfit wasn’t a personal attack to her, the person who created the post did it for fun and also hide the face, it was just for fun. What drove me mad was the “Hema is a goofy sport”
Ok, so if for you hema is this, and you dress like that, why do you feel insulted if someone make you notice that you’re not taking that seriously?
Hema for me and many other people is a reason of life, we take it very seriously, and I felt deeply insulted when she wrote “goofy sporty”.
For other ppl is life.
Very last thing, saying that a trans woman cannot do a lady category into a sport is discrimination? Yes.
But, In real life, talking about civil rights, I always have been a supporter. I would never refuse a job or anything else to someone just because is trans, I don’t give a shit about what that person identify as, it’s their life. Their choice and I always supported that.
I’ve always had fights with my family because they are old fashioned so “gay or trans cannot marry/adopt they are ewww”
And I’ve never agreed with them, but I always fought against this old fashioned idea.
But sport is another matter.