That feel of no girlfriend, THAT FEEL (Again...)

[fulviuz]

Ha mai avuto una relazione sentimentale (più o meno seria)? Una complessa valutazione psicologica o psichiatrica sarebbe opportuna, se non altro per escludere "cose grosse" (es disturbo schizotipico di personalità).




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level 2AnzelNero


· 15 hr. ago

Ma cosa dovrebbe c'entrare l'aver avuto una relazione sentimentale?





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level 3Stones8080


+2 · 15 hr. ago

Davvero va spiegato? È un indicatore generico usato per aiutare a farsi un quadro generale.

[Maelström]

[Zhuge]

[Maelström]

Dat Orologio Mr. Clock feel:

[GenghisKhan]

Vabbè mi pare logico, che cazzo di proposta è

[fulviuz]

Con Meetic non ci si può scrivere nemmeno dopo un match
bisogna PACARE.

Mannagg ro cazz

Come fa Di Battista coi sandali in juta ecosostenibile?

[Lux !]

Vabbè mi pare logico, che cazzo di proposta è

Si va a correre alle 5 che è bello libero, alle 7 c'è già troppa gente

[Lucajo]

Con Meetic non ci si può scrivere nemmeno dopo un match
bisogna PACARE.

Fluviuz, ma a parte 'sto Meetic quale potrebbe essere un sito/app di incontri decente? Tinder mi sa di poco serio... Ormai sono over 40 e siccome sono tornato single per l'ennesima volta...

[Necronomicon]

Bumble ho beccato abbastanza ma più straniere che italiane.
Il problema non sono le app, sono le donne che usano le app

[Rot Teufel]

[Manu]

Fluviuz, ma a parte 'sto Meetic quale potrebbe essere un sito/app di incontri decente? Tinder mi sa di poco serio... Ormai sono over 40 e siccome sono tornato single per l'ennesima volta...

ti conviene andare in qualche bar/locale famoso per le tardone, mi sa

[fulviuz]

Boh entrambe, ma mi pare ci siano una scamionata di divorziate/con figli/cesse su Meetic, mentre su Tinder ci sono di quelle passeracee da paura (protip: no, non matchano me)

[Maelström]

Anche su Tinder è pieno di divorziate, ormai sono tutte divorziate, le coppie sposate che durano sono rarissime, tranquillo Fulviuz che le app di dating hanno tutte la stessa utenza, intendo proprio dire che se installi 4 app diverse e ti metti a scorrere i profili troverai sempre le stesse persone che girano da un app all'altra.
Morale della favola se provi un app dating a caso e ti fa cagare stai tranquillo che automaticamente faranno cagare anche le altre, cambiano solo i ricamini che gli sviluppatori ci fanno per tentare di farle sembrare diverse e forzare gli utenti a spendere soldi per ottenere più interazioni.

[Manu]

Anche su Tinder è pieno di divorziate, ormai sono tutte divorziate, le coppie sposate che durano sono rarissime, tranquillo Fulviuz che le app di dating hanno tutte la stessa utenza, intendo proprio dire che se installi 4 app diverse e ti metti a scorrere i profili troverai sempre le stesse persone che girano da un app all'altra.
Morale della favola se provi un app dating a caso e ti fa cagare stai tranquillo che automaticamente faranno cagare anche le altre, cambiano solo i ricamini che gli sviluppatori ci fanno per tentare di farle sembrare diverse e forzare gli utenti a spendere soldi per ottenere più interazioni.

Ah, sicuro

pure in Regno Unito, va detto che qui (è la mia sensazione) non di rado si sposano senza pensarci su troppo

[Lucajo]

Bumble ho beccato abbastanza ma più straniere che italiane.
Il problema non sono le app, sono le donne che usano le app

Boh entrambe, ma mi pare ci siano una scamionata di divorziate/con figli/cesse su Meetic, mentre su Tinder ci sono di quelle passeracee da paura (protip: no, non matchano me)

Ok, magari mi faccio un giro in qualche casa di riposo. Thanks

[Manu]

Anche su Tinder è pieno di divorziate, ormai sono tutte divorziate, le coppie sposate che durano sono rarissime, tranquillo Fulviuz che le app di dating hanno tutte la stessa utenza, intendo proprio dire che se installi 4 app diverse e ti metti a scorrere i profili troverai sempre le stesse persone che girano da un app all'altra.
Morale della favola se provi un app dating a caso e ti fa cagare stai tranquillo che automaticamente faranno cagare anche le altre, cambiano solo i ricamini che gli sviluppatori ci fanno per tentare di farle sembrare diverse e forzare gli utenti a spendere soldi per ottenere più interazioni.

Ah, chiaro

chi "punta" sulle online dating apps, è probabile che abbia un account per ognuna di esse

la gente è quella, grosso modo

[Lux !]

Ok, magari mi faccio un giro in qualche casa di riposo. Thanks

Iscriviti ad un corso di pizza acrobatica

[Maelström]

Ok, magari mi faccio un giro in qualche casa di riposo. Thanks

punta le badanti

[ZTL]

https://twitter.com/Svagaia/status/1655195939752034304

[Manu]

Avvocato, questo è per lei

Does it seem like dating is harder today than our parents and grandparents had it? Here's why that is.

With seemingly more and more guys having issues attracting women than ever before in history, we have seen the rise of incel culture and sexually frustrated men who are stuck watching porn and complaining on reddit all day instead of meeting women, but why is this? What's the reason behind this sudden change? Why was your dad able to find your mom at the age of 20 and get married at the age of 25 when you're 30 and still struggling to get dates?

Well, it comes down to a few factors, each one of them playing a different role in how dating culture has changed, and it's important to understand all of them if you want to become successful in your own dating life today, otherwise you will continue experiencing failure.

1. Social media + dating apps becoming mainstream have increased the overall dating pool

Think about it. At this point, there is no one out there who hasn't heard about the existence of Tinder and in a study from 2019, it was revealed that almost half of US adults aged 18-29 (48% to be exact) have used dating apps at least once. In addition, a study from earlier this year found that over four in five of all US adults (82% to be exact) are on social media.

What does this mean for you? Well, it means that with so many guys available at a girl's fingertips, you have a lot more guys to compete with. 20+ years ago, the only guys you would have had to compete with were the guys in a girl's social circle. This meant that you had less competition and higher chances to actually date someone. Nowadays, if you don't meet a girl's standards, she will brush you aside for someone else who does.

2. Marriage is becoming less of an expectation/life goal, and more of a personal choice that's also getting delayed

How does this affect your dating life? Well, it means that girls are feeling less pressured to simply settle for someone because they feel like they need to get married. So many marriages 20+ years ago (including potentially your parents' too) happened because it was the expected thing to do in your 20s. Being unmarried by the time you turned 30 was simply not a thing back then.

What does this mean for you? Well, it means that girls are no longer settling for guys who only meet their basic requirements in a partner simply because they feel the need to get married. Most women today are pushing marriage into their 30s and many are even foregoing the idea of getting married at all! Therefore, without this pressure of getting married anymore, women will take their time and be pickier about who they choose to spend it with.

3. Women are becoming more independent + earning more money to be able to support themselves on their own

Back in the 50s, it was almost unheard of for a woman to have a career - she was a housewife. Back in the 80s, it was uncommon for a woman to hold a full-time year-round job - she worked part-time, if anything. Today, women are becoming CEOs, VPs, high-level executives, and managers. Hell, many of them are even starting their own businesses.

What does this mean for you? Well, it means that women no longer need to depend on having a partner to live a fulfilling lifestyle. They can be their own breadwinner. It also means they have less time to waste on guys who don't provide them with any value. Back in the day, the mere fact that you could provide for her with your salary was enough value to merit giving you a chance, but today, she's going to need more than that.

A lot of incels like to throw out the "insult" to women that they'll be all alone in their 30s/40s living with a bunch of cats if they keep rejecting "nice" men, but in reality, that actually sounds really nice to most women (who can already care for themselves). Why would they want to lower their standards and be in a toxic relationship with someone shitty like that when the alternative is a peaceful single life with cuddly fur babies? I personally don't blame them for preferring that lifestyle.

I.e. women don't NEED men anymore so you have to make them WANT you.

So what's the point of all this?

Well, it's to demonstrate that society has changed and as a result, so has dating as a whole. The way the previous generations have gotten laid is no longer as relevant in today's world. If you want to have success nowadays, you need to adapt to the changing tides accordingly.

How do you do that, you ask?

Well, it requires getting off your ass and becoming the most attractive and high-value version of yourself you can be. It requires working on yourself both physically and mentally, having goals and a purpose in life, and being self-sufficient and financially independent.

It requires having interesting hobbies and stories to tell, putting yourself out there and meeting as many women as possible (including utilizing social media and dating apps), and most importantly, understanding that women do not owe you anything anymore - you need to earn their attraction now.

Can you still seduce women today without doing some of these things?

Sure, you can, but you're only limiting yourself if you decide to skip any of the steps. If you want the best chance at success when it comes to dating, you need to do everything you can to stand out in the crowd, or else you will just get left behind.

Or you can continue to bitch about how difficult it is to get women and devolve further and further into that incel mentality that I can guarantee you will never get you laid.

News flash: times have changed and things are not going to go back to the way they used to be. The moment you understand and accept that, the moment you can begin to adapt accordingly and find success.